Helping Children Develop Self Discipline

Self-discipline helps children to delay gratification, resist unhealthy temptations, and tolerate the discomfort needed to reach their long-term goals.

 

1. Provide Structure

Create a similar schedule every day and your child will get used to the routine. When they know what they are supposed to be doing, they will be less likely to get derailed by other activities.

Keep your child’s routines simple. With practice, your child will learn to implement the routine without your assistance.

A good morning routine helps children to know when it’s time to eat breakfast, comb their hair, brush their teeth, and get dressed. A good after-school routine teaches children how to divide their time between chores, homework, and fun activities. On top of that, a consistent bedtime routine will help children to settle down and fall asleep faster.

2. Explain The Reason Behind Your Rules

When it comes to helping children learn how to make healthy choices, an authoritative approach is best because it helps them to understand the reasons for the rules.

Instead of saying, “Do your homework now because I said so,” explain the underlying reason for the rule.

 

 

Give Consequences

Sometimes, natural consequences can teach some of life’s greatest lessons. It’s important to avoid power struggles. Trying to force your child to do something will not instill self-discipline.

Explain what the negative consequences will be if your child makes a poor choice. Then, let your child make the choice.

Keep in mind that children need to learn how to make healthy decisions by themselves, by examining the potential consequences of their behavior.

 

 

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